Well…I finally got around to watching The Great Debaters which turned out to be an excellent film. Set in the early 1930s in the Jim Crow South, a small group of small-town black kids (from Wiley College) compete with white kids at prestigious schools such as Harvard in a debate team that has you spellbound for the entire duration of the film. All actors of course gave a stellar performance, most notably (in my opinion) Denzel Washington, Forest Whitaker and Jurnee Smollett.
It got me thinking about our ‘blackness’ though. Our race, our accomplishments and failures as black people. The film bought to life an era when our respectable and even highly educated fathers were reduced to “boy” by racist whites. When young people generations ago lived with the horror of lynchings, racial injustice, exclusion from regular society…abuse. In one of the scenes with the team’s first debate with a white school, Smollett argued the affirmative for integrated colleges. Her opponent had stated that there may come a day when blacks and whites can walk on the same campus and sit in the same classroom but ’sadly that day is not today’. In her moving and emotionally rousing argument Smollet declares that the time for equality, the time for justice, the time for freedom is always, always right now.
We’re talking over seventy years ago. Most of our grandparents lived in this era, they lived during this appalling part of history. But look at us now, respected scholars and academics, CEOs and executives, senates and presidential candidates. We have an equal shot at receiving an education at the most prestigious universities. Blacks have stood their ground and have done good. If the black children in the early thirties – those children who watched their strong fathers submit and their brothers lynched – if they could see us now. If those black leaders who fought so fiercely to make this world right, who worked so hard to educate themselves could see us now. They would be so proud, so amazed.

But would they entirely?
Excerpt from Birdman’s song ‘I Run This’
And ima keep runnin
Ima keep runnin one neva runnin outta money
Ima dog ima stunt
If I don’t do nothin
And my car so pretty all these hoes wan f**k it
I got pussy wet paint
Big boy shoes
Soft ass seats and my trunk go boom
I gotta black ass gun
And a bad yello bitch
And it looks like ima die like this
Do you understand what he’s saying here? Me neither. Sounds to me like ignorant foolishness. I’m guilty of enjoying a few hip hop tunes myself but my god, it is so embarassing to hear the lyrics sometimes. Is this supposed to be accepted as part of the black ‘culture’ now? Idiotic songs about running around with guns and ‘yello’ bitches? All the horror and abuse and hopeful dreams of our greats and this is what now defines black culture? I have a friend who attended a business event and he just happened to be the only black person at the dinner table. The jovial topic of conversation (directed at him) had everything to do with hip hop. What does this mean or that mean? Do you like this or that? (lots of laughing and chuckling over drinks). Of course he knew about as much about hip hop as they did but he took it all in good humor. I went to visit white friends who lived in the suburbs once. When we were driving they flicked stations (flicked past all the rock and alternative music I like) and awkwardly left it on some rap station with 50 Cent blaring his god-awful tunes. Were they trying to be good hosts sitting stiffly and smiling politely at me because they thought I liked that crap? Ugh! I hate that blacks are expected to be immersed in that kind of culture. I hate stereotypes period. These rap artists ruin it for the rest of us who don’t particulary love that genre of music or the lifestyle for that matter.


(Dr. King Jr, Birdman right)
I say blacks have come a long way but we still have a long way to go. In America 11% of black males aged 20-34 are behind bars according to the Economist. Overall black men are seven times more likely to be incarcerated than white men. In 2005 the black murder rate was seven times higher than for the whites and Latinos combined. Those are American stats. In Bermuda similar thing. I think the black/white ratio here is 60/40. The majority of inmates are black. The majority of the hooligans committing Americanized crimes here (yes I said that) are black. Recently we had a case of a group of young Portuguese Bermudians who were arrested on charges of drug and weapon possession. It almost seemed surreal that they weren’t black!
There are those who are really afro-centric and feel blacks need to ‘get back to their roots’. But I am pissed off by what is happening with Zimbabwe’s political scene. Why the hell do blacks keep warring against each other? If it isn’t on the streets with gangs and thugs it is some kind of political rebellion or war in Africa itself. This is the country we originated from as we are constantly reminded of (including black Americans feeling the need to hyphenate themselves as ‘African-American’. That is something I never really loved but that is a whole other controversial topic).
So we have this dictator president (Robert Mugabe) who has been ruling Zimbabwe for about 28 years. Alas, alas after years of driving his country into a ditch they finally have an election where opposition leader Morgan Tsvangirai arguably wins over 50% of the votes. Somehow these results are muddled and now there must be a runoff. Great! (Mugabe’s government says that he won 47.9% of the vote but since no one got 50%, under Zimbabwe law, there must now be a runoff). Tsvangirai gets to decide whether or not to take part in the runoff which I believe he said he would contest. What has me reeling though is that Mugabe has resorted to intimidation and organized violence in order to remain in power. According to the NY Times a member of ZANU-PF’s Politburo anonymously said in an interview that the party had no intention of giving up power through the ballot box. Quoted in NY Times;
“We’re giving the people of Zimbabwe another opportunity to mend their ways, to vote properly,” The Politburo member said. “This is their last chance.”
The ruling party, military, youth militias have ‘for weeks been threatening, arresting and beating those they see as threats…including people who had simply voted for the opposition’. The violence is escalating and becoming more brutal including against women, children and the elderly. The UN says it can reach crisis levels.


(President Mugabe, Opposition leader Tsvangirai right)
Friedman hit it spot-on when he said this;
(referring to South Africa’s president, Thabo Mbeki whom he calls Mugabe’s chief enabler and protector)
“If South Africa’s Mbeki had withdrawn his economic and political support for Mugabe’s government, Mugabe would have had to have resigned a long time ago. But Mbeki feels no loyalty to suffering Zimbabweans. His only loyalty is to his fellow anti-colonial crony, Mugabe. What was that anti-colonial movement for? So an African leader could enslave his people instead of a European one?”

The whole world is watching Zimbabwe in horror.
While Africa always seems to be in political turmoil, and blacks seem to make up a huge percent of inmates and are immersed in a damaging, regressive and – to put it frankly – stupid thug culture one has to ask, what is the point? “Let dem niggas kill themselves off” some old KKK guy must say to himself when he reads headlines of drive-by shootings. Why do our young people even bother expressing any anger when they think of the senseless and violent deaths of their ancestors by white men? They’re doing the same damn thing to each other. Tell me please, what is the difference between a negro hanging from a tree and a thug putting a bullet through another thug’s head? It runs parallel except that before it was the disgrace of the whites, now we are doing it to ourselves.


So I’m saying again, look at us now. We are convicts, on welfare, drug pushers in ghettos, inmates and menaces to society. We are respected scholars and academics, CEOs and executives, senates and presidential candidates. We have a long way to go but we are climbing you know. We are still climbling. Despite it all I believe we still remain undefeated. We are still pressing on.
Filed under: Race
The questions that you are raising are what I’m feeling about our people, black people. So tired of rappers acting like they are truly running things. Even though types like Bush, Cheney and McCain are older white males, the hardest black male today will not fuck with them..Why, because the black male knows that these men will bring the wrath of God and their army to wipe them out…Easier to talk about hoes, rims and money.
To me the worst chains are the ones that are invisible. I’m talking about the chains (stereotypes) that black people are inherently suppose to buy into because it’s hip. It’s hip to be disrespectful. It’s also hip to shun knowledge found in most books, particularly about science, government and language. Math, well all black males on the corner can count their money. The same dollars that the government lets us kill ourselves over. Not life saving, or school building dollars but the kind that buys chains and big screen televisions.
I stumbled on your ramblings, and the more I read the more I realized it is a sort of rambling (not meant to be a pon nor an insult) You go from talking about questions you raise about your feelings of our black people. As I read further I realize that you are really raising these questions after your experience while visiting your “white” friends. Your real question should have been to your “white” friends. If they were really your friends they would have known that you did not like that music and if they care about you they should have asked you if there was any particular music you cared to listen to. You see, I live in a predominantly Caucasian community, have done so my entire life, 48 years old lived on 3 continents and 2 islands and I have learned something about people. I have learned by watching, education (sociology, philosophy and anthropology and basically LIFE). Starting with your first issue with 50 cent, that is the song the white friends tuned to on their radio which insulted you. Rappers (all rappers are not black first of all, they are from all races(whatever race is, sociologically speaking there is no such thing), they do not represent blacks and they are not the black culture, they apart of the worlds culture of music. These people rap(sing) about lives that they have lived, their environment, what they like and what they do. Belittling women and glorifying cars, designer clothes, sex and thugdom that is their genre and I will tell you this, statistics show that “whites” have the most dollars and spend the most on this type of music. Whites are riding down the streets with their cars pimped out and banging that rap music with their yellow and pink hoes enjoying that music. But they are not the target here are they. When I visit other countries, Canada, Germany, Italy, England, Nigeria, Barbados, Bermuda and leave the mainland to go down to Hawaii, I hear and see the same….they are enjoying Rap. They are not called blacks nor are they stereotyped.
Yes, OUR black fathers and mothers suffered and paid the ultimate price to be free and be educated and exercise our rights. Rights in which nobody has the right to tread upon or take away. One of those rights is freedom of speech, that part of freedom of speech can be verbal or written as long as it is not a terroristic threat. You may thing that what rappers say is a threat to the black culture but it is not it is a part of world culture which is less thant 20 years old which happened to be introduced by black people. OUR black foreparents may not like rap and have the chose to not listen to it, but they would never want that choice …free speech to be taken away when they died and fought to have a voice. And no matter what you think about rap, people have a choice and they use it to relate their lives, or experiences they way they chose to do it. It does not have to be politically or socially correct or to please you or anybody else. Because like them you have a choice to …not to listen to it.
And because they use those words and chose to sing those types of songs, make those types of videos, does not make them less than you or “white folks” Some have good family values and backgrounds and are educated. They use their creativity differently than you or others like you do. I can appreciate differences in all people. I have met black people from all over the world and I have learned that because we are black does not mean we are one. We have skin shades that are alike but share so many differences. About your statement of Americanized crimes…now that is stereotyping BIG time…what is that. Crimes did not originate in America and remember this Bermudians who choose to commit crimes commit them because that is what they choose to do it. There is no crime indigenous to America, (I am assuming you are talking about USA, because North America is huge and the crimes you see in Bermuda are committed in North America, Central America and South America, neither America claims to own any particular crime.
As for your question about black on black crime, well, the masters (our white masters) worldwide had a method they practiced that is still prevalent today. Master evoked a prejudice amongst blacks and if you ponder on it and not deny it you will understand it as many of us already do. White slave owners and traders gave the light-skinned slaves better clothing, less strenuous work, work in the big house, and more food than the dark-skinned slaves, not only that they had them to snitch on the dark-skinned slaves and rewarded them for it. That practice was highly practiced in the Caribbean and on your beautiful islands…hence there never was slavery revolts in islands and there were no hangings and maiming(cutiing off feet and legs to keep them from running off), and they could not run too far because of the sea and ocean. Also, on the continent, slave traders did not go into Africa hunting and capturing people and putting them into slavery, Tribal rivaly existed then and even before the white man set foot on the continent, the white man learned of this rivalry and gave one tribe trinkets and supplies for their captives. Africans traded people(slaves) for supplies. Africans still do the same thing today and think nothing of it. Native Americans captured other tribes and traded them for trinkets and supplies as well. It has happened since Biblical days, remember Joseph (the one with the coat of many colors) his brothers were jealous and sold him into slavery. Not only are atrocities occurring in Africa, they are happening in Asian countries, South and Central America, the Caribbean, Bosnia, Croatia, Afghanistan, Pakistan, the Ukraine, the Phillipines, Australia. and the problems are not a black people problem….it simply is a PeopLe problem. You can say what we should do or be focused on…improving ourselves by educating ourselves and empowering ourselves…believe it or not. People live what they know. You cannot live what you dont know…Many of us have lived horrible lives including myself but many dont know what to do to rise above it. Those of us who do were sick and tired and wanted a different life no matter what it took to achieve it and let nothing get in our way. Everybody dont have that drive nor do they have the support. Remember this is not a Free (money wise) world. Look at Bermuda, if everybody was educated and had the same view about education and prosperity there would be very few ex-patriots working jobs there because Bermudians would be in those jobs.About being hip is just another form of peer pressure, and black are not shunning knowledge in books to be hip. Remember blacks were not allowed to go to school nor to read it was against the law, they say the whites said if you want to keep something from a Nigger put it in a book. Well you have people who are walking around, grown, and cannot speak good English, and cannot read or write. They are ashamed to admit it and you have professional football and basketball stars and Weather Men (Al Roker) who cannot read and finished college. They drop out of school because some teachers who are in teaching positions who not interesting in teaching children and some cannot reach a child because they only see black and white. Children learn in three different ways, verbal, visual and tactile. Some kids use one , two or all three ways of learning. When a kid learns tactile they become a problem in the class room because the teachers have not discovered that and looses the kid. The kid does bad gets in trouble with their grades and their self-esteem goes down the drain and they are either passed just to get them out of the school or they drop out and the streets become their classroom. There is no limit to the street degree they will earn. What they learn there becomes their life hence the stereotyping them. No suppport, No Money….they do what they do well sing and tell about their lives and what is important in their lives and if it can help them live well and make money for it so be it they do it. In this thing called life, there is always going to be something that irritate us…but if we only talk about it and speculate Are we helping? Being who you are and knowing what you know …what are you doing to help your black people. Have you gotten in the trenches, given your brother or sister a hand to help pull them up? Have you volunteered to help someone change their lives, have you thought of what might you do to help bring about a change to help break the chains and help your people …black, white, brown, tan anycolor who are embarassing you? I live my life everyday trying to give something back to people who are unlike me and what I mean by that is ….uneducated, homeless, unhealthy, sick, unemployed, housing problems, uninformed. If I just place a flying on my counter about education, grants, careers, seminars on education. housing etc. if it spark an interest in the people that I come in contact with or their families, I have made a difference and look for the chance to do it for as many as I can. You will be amazed that with all the technology we have and education and research how uninformed people are about the simpliest thing. If you got out of your comfort zone and got into their worlds you will be totally surprised!! I am not shocked nor suprised by much and I know that what I hear or see there is just what people want me to see and that there is an element if people’s lives that conditioned them, but since I know God, I know that nobody is hopeless. Just look at where we as black people are to day. People who choose to use African-Americans that is their choice and not all black Americans choose to be called African Americans because everybody black did not come from Africa. When I lived in Germany I was not a black American I was just an American. I was not black until I came back to the western hemisphere. I am simply black because of my skin color but my dna tells a different story just as I am sure black Bermudians have a great story to tell too. We simply exist in this Universe from the Heavenly Father and through Him, we are one….just people.
Wow Carolyn, I have a ‘ramble’ sister! (smile). Yes, yes I am aware that my blog is controversial and I did expect to ruffle feathers. Kudos to you in your effort to assist other people in regards to education, housing etc. That is truly admirable.
We are more or less on the same page in terms of being ‘one people’ or at least I feel we should strive for that. You have also pinpointed exactly why I am not crazy about the ‘African-American’ title but to each his own, no biggie.
Now about my blog – it is meant to send one main message. I do have a big problem with misogynistic, violent black on black music/lifestyle. I don’t care how much it is glorified or sensationalized by the hip hop industry or media. Nor do I care about the middle/upper-class white kids (the biggest consumers of hip hop) who are pumping money into the industry. You seem to give the impression that I consider myself superior to rap artists and that couldn’t be further from the truth. Rap isn’t what it used to be. It has become a vehicle to propagate violence within the black community and I won’t apologize for having a problem with it. It is stupid. Our young black men are literally killing each other off. The glorified Black Thug From the American Ghettos (in which I made 50 Cent the poster boy) has rippled its way to little Bermuda and I had to spend Christmas explaining to my young sons why someone was shot dead in our neighborhood. The whole rap music/thug lifestyle package is alluring but I hate the violence and stagnation.
Yes there are people all over the world and of all different races who are caught up in violent ‘gang’ lifestyles, and if there are also white people riding around in pimped cars singing ‘uma real nigga’ then it is what it is I suppose, whatever.
My main problem, my main frustration is with the romantic and hyped up notion of blacks murdering each other and the glorifying of this lifestyle through the music and media. These people are singing their truth, expressing real-life struggles and experiences but instead of ending the violent cycle they are fostering it, nurturing it, sensationalizing it and stuffing their pockets with millions from record sales while their brothers sit in prison or lay on street corners with bullets through their heads. The violence and stagnation is stupid and when I say stupid I mean senseless.
You say that the violent and derogatory content of this genre of music does not make them less then me or ‘white folks’. I see us as one people, that is why it hurts and frustrates me. You say some of the people who glorify violence, drugs and misogyny actually have good family values and backgrounds and are educated and that they use their ‘creativity’ differently than me or ‘others like me’. Those people make me want to implore them to stop the cycle they are contributing to. There are so many rap artists who produce fantastic albums without lyrics that glorify ’shootin niggas’ and ‘pimpin’ hoes’. It doesn’t have to be this way is all I’m saying. They can speak their truth without fostering or encouraging the cycle.
You say they have the freedom of speech, that people have a choice to encourage rap and use it to relate to their lives or experiences the way they choose to do it. You say they do not have to please me or anyone else because I have a choice not to listen to it.
You’re right, I do have a choice not to listen to it. But I do not have a choice in terms of being personally affected by it. I have seen and lived with the devastation and constant fear that this kind of music and lifestyle can influence. I loved hip hop music as a teenager. I loved the thrill of street credibility or the allure of ‘true gangstas’. I had a lot of anger and the music pumped that anger, gave it power. I understand the pull but I also understand the devastation.
I understand that my blog is controversial and that people will agree or disagree, but like you said…our forefathers fought for a lot of things including freedom of speech. I will always have a problem with the violence and stagnation and I will always voice my opinion about it.
Thanks so much for your comment. I love to hear people’s thoughts and debates are healthy. Blogs are ‘cool like dat’.
Black people in the USA have certainly come a far way from the days of slavery to the days of CEO’s, Presidential candidates, Lawyers, Doctors, Scholars etc. As a matter of fact, there is very few, if any profession that blacks have not infiltrated and mastered.
While we have climbed the corporate ladders, excelled entrepreneurially, and have managed to defy the myths that blacks are predisposed to be academically inferior, there is still a part of our culture that is marching in the opposite direction. Like T. I believe that the contents of some rap songs serves only as a sinker for a society that is already under water in so many ways. While it may be true that the contents of these songs are a reflection of what is really going on in society, one must me mindful that the opposite may also be true. Art imitates life in as much as life imitates art. A classic case of life imitating art is evident in the happenings in the 1970’s and early 1980’s Jamaica. The ghetto youths in Kingston became addicted to the violence fed to them by Hollywood in movies like The God Father and others. Every self described ‘shotta’ back then took on a nickname from the movies. They did not only take the name but they acted out the parts in real life. Ever seen the movie “The Harder They Come”? There is your evidence.
I believe the same situation is happening here in the USA with rap music. The rappers may be excellent artist who conjure up these rhythmic fantasies, lace them over some cool beats, add a few hot mamas in the videos, and a hit is made. While this may be a piece of art for the artist there are some out there who are internalizing it and making it real in their everyday life. …OK, let’s say then that these rappers are recounting their own experiences… why should we glorify violence disrespect our ladies, pimp out our daughters, and advocate the use of drugs? Why do we accept it?
See; the real problem here is not the genre of music but rather the circumstances that feed or inspire the contents of the music. While some of us have managed to set ourselves free from the prescribed dosage failure, many, too many, of us are still bounded by the mental chains of the past.
Is this a black problem? Yes it is! We hold the key to our own destiny. We are the only ones who can break this cycle and the only way this cycle can be broken is through education. T. pointed out the alarming dropout rate amongst blacks in America. In this day and age when we have numerous options when it comes to education we are not taking advantage of it. We still for the most part do not realize the value of what we are passing up.
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Carolyn; I see your point and you made sense for the most part. However, I must point out a few things. First of which is the fact that there were numerous slave revolts in the Caribbean most notable of which is the Haitian revolution which resulted in the first black governed nation in the Caribbean. Jamaica also had its fair share of slave revolts. Have you ever heard of the exploits of Nanny and the Maroons, Tacky, Quashie, the Morant Bay rebellion?
The next thing I would like to comment on is your statement to the effect that not all rappers are black and that it is mostly white who buy rap music. While your statements are true it must be noted however that most rappers are black and the few non-black rappers are not as influential as their black counterparts. In as much as one cannot deny that reggae music is Jamaican music (not all reggae artist are Jamaicans/black) one cannot deny that rap music is black music. Whites do spend more money on rap than blacks and here are the reasons why: 1. they have more money 2. They are intrigued by the lifestyle and try to live vicariously through these rappers 3. They want to be cool.
The difference that must be noted here is that most of these white dudes who are buying rap music and driving down the streets with pimped out rides and yellow hoes did not drop out of high school, are either college graduates or on their way to college, not to mention the trust fund that is sitting there for them.
While noting is wrong with making an honest living every artist must be mindful of the effect that the contents of their lyrics have on their family and the society at large.
Imagine Birdman or 50 Cents talking to their children about abstinence, staying in school, saying no to drugs etc. I cannot imagine.
One more thing, every black person alive today can trace their roots back to Africa. It does not matter where you are living right now. Your roots are in Africa! To quote the late great Peter Tosh “ It nuh matter weh yuh come from, as long as you’re a black man you’re an African”.
In response to the comments about my comment. Excuse me for not knowing caribbean history (we are not taught about black history in our own schools in america (it is an elective) let alone the islands) and I still say everybody who is black did not come from Africa! Color, D.Brown, not genes., did you come from Africa. I assume you are probably a person of color and did not come from African. So I think it is safe for me to assume that you must come from the Islands since you think Peter Tosh was so great and talking about reggae and revolts in the caribbean (my opinion). I for one do not like rap nor reggae. Now call me nuts and making no sense, that is again ,your choice and opinion. That is just a preference, not prejudice.
We cannot blame rap and movies nor Americans/America on causing these problems that black people are going through today. It is a matter of choice that people make. People listen to rap and dont commit crimes. Neither one of you have documented and valid stats or research to prove anything that you are saying about rap causing these people to commit crimes.It is just your opinions and you have the right to your opinion but be factual dont make guesses to justify your beliefs. Also, rap and movies are not the parents of our young people. A man and a woman bore these children and it begins at home….instilling moral values in our children. Monitoring what they read, see and hear. Peer pressure comes in all shapes and forms and as people we need to take responsiblity and take control of our lives and families. Mr. Brown all white people are not rich and have trust funds. There are many white people or supposedly whites(mulattos) who are raised just like black people. I dont know where you got your statistics from about whites that listen to rap are educated and college grads and did not drop out of high school. You are just speculating about something to make your point seem valid. I am a mother of six children ranging from 6 to 31 years old. Five girls and one boy. My ex husband will be 51 years old and you would not believe the type of music this man listens to. He only listens to rap. When you look at him you would think his is a nerd, he does not swear, does not wear sagging pants, does not bang his music and is educated, a career soldier, never been arrested …nothing that relates to what these rappers are talking about. But that man loved him some rap….and I hated me some rap. I could not for the life of me understand why this man would spend his money on that trash. He bought violent video games and movies. oh he loved reggae too. He just enjoyed thuggish stuff. One day I asked him why did he listen to that mess and that I was not going to ride in the car with him listening to men calling women bitches and hoes. He said he liked the music and thought it was funny. What was really going on was, he was living a fantasy through that, he wished he could be thuggish, but knew it was not socially acceptable. He was in-the- closet, thugging with the hoes, though. But when it came to our children, they had to be morally and socially acceptable, go to school , do the right thing and be respectable. no talking back and obeying their parents. My son and daughters except the 6y/o listen to that garbage and still do, and it irritates the hell out of me and I yell at them to turn it down. But the values and morals that we instilled in them is more powerful than the lyrics and actions of rappers and thuggish movies, and the peer pressure of their peers. Three of my children have all white friends from all walks of life and they have slept in my place and my kids in theirs. Mostly the boys, some are so damn poor, misguided and mixed up and confused as blacks and listen to that mess because they can relate to it because of things going on in their lives. Alot of people fail to realize that home is not always a haven. Atrocities such as abuse…physically, emotionally and sexually goes on at home. And when family members are involved, aware of it and everybody knows but dont do anything about it and are silent. Silence has a way of internalizing pain and pain causes problems emotionally and psycologically. When these kids go outside of the home, it is a relief, they cant talk about it …because it is shameful. So they identify with the negativeness of their peers and some of the music they hear have lyrics which are parallel to their lives. They relate to the person bringing the message. They are away from home they feel some sort of relief to be away from that pain and they embrace what they think to be cool the “the artist” and his/her lyrics. He/she sees these pimped out cars with these slaves to designer clothes and gold grills and they want it. But they go back home at some point to the filth, empty fridges, dirty clothes and shoes not having money, or being uncle James hoe while momma and daddy are sleep or out working. Or cant go to school looking descent because they dont have the clothes or will be teased at how they look. Never have money to participate in any activity….so they drop out of school. Or they could have been in the time not so long ago when the white principles came to get the boys hispanic or black on their birthday, took them to the office and had a little talk with them. Telling them well, son, you are 16 now you can quit school and go to work in the fields with your parents to help them earn money, poor kid thinks that is what he is supposed to do. He goes home and work with his parent, the parents dont think anything of it because the same thing was done to them, they did not get an education so it is not important to them to ensure their kids get it because mentally and psychologically they were beaten. So they dont value education because the school authorities are the ones who devalued it for them., this just stopped happening in Texas in the 80s. So the parents have to work hard two or three jobs and therefore giving their kids less time and attention. Leaving the oldest to care for the youngest. The oldest think they are the man or the woman of the house and start doing grown up things ending up in pregnancies and infected with disease or just turned out by their sexual partners and then ultimately dont give a damn because nobody gives a damn about them. They go out and take from others to fulfill a need that is not being fulfilled by the ones who are supposed to care about them. I know it is not right but these are just examples of reasons why these things are occurring. PARENTS ARE NOT BEING PARENTS NOT instilling moral values, encouraging and embracing their kids, not knowing where their kids are, who their friends are or what they are doing when they are with their friends. Look at Snoop Dogg reality show. Did you even think that that man could be the father that he is with the kind of music he represents. Heck no he is a good and loving father. You really cannot KNOW there unless You GO There! There are tons of reason these kids are embracing this mess. Another reason PAS-Parental Alienation Syndrome. where one parent puts the other parent down to the child, brainwashing them to believe the non-custodial parent is no good and dont want them and is just terrible. Those kids turn to what makes them feel good and their peers which lead to negative peer pressure. Tsehay, as a parent you will never be able to answer all of you children’s questions nor will you be able to shield their eyes from reality, but you can give them love ,support and guidance and a good family foundation…control what they watch and hear. Try to guide them in making good choices about remaining in school and becoming an asset to their community by setting examples and letting them know that what rappers sing about is not the NORM, it is a negative EXCEPTION which leads to DECEPTION. Teach them social tolerance and not to lay blame toward a certain people or country. Focus on social change in a positive manner because I think we can agree that ignorance is ignorance and negativeness begets negativeness. And most importantly, it is all about CHOICES. Remember there are devices we are able to use to control what our kids see on TV, they have parental controls on TV, internet, computers and the covers of CDs and DVDs have warnings about explicit language and Restricted movie ratings as parents we can enforce those things in our homes. As far as killings, we cannot explain why someone did it we can assure our kids that as parents we will protect and care for them and let no harm come to them if we can help it. Form a group and start a letter writing campaign and send to the rappers and tell them how you feel they may do like some of the rappers and clean-up their music. Who knows it just may work.
I find this very interesting and a enlightening for our black people….FYI
From the Houston Chronicle’s front page…we are going somewhere! That includes my kids which happen to be true African Americans. ..I am American and father Nigerian.
May 20, 2008, 2:11AM
BACHELOR’S AND BEYOND
In America, Nigerians’ education pursuit is above rest
Whether driven by immigration or family, data show more earn degrees
By LESLIE CASIMIR
Copyright 2008 Houston Chronicle
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Complete coverage of immigration issues For Woodlands resident David Olowokere, one of Nigeria’s sons, having a master’s degree in engineering just wasn’t enough for his people back home. So he got a doctorate.
His wife, Shalewa Olowokere, a civil engineer, didn’t stop at a bachelor’s, either. She went for her master’s.
The same obsession with education runs in the Udeh household in Sugar Land. Foluke Udeh and her husband, Nduka, both have master’s degrees. Anything less, she reckons, would have amounted to failure.
“If you see an average Nigerian family, everybody has a college degree these days,” said Udeh, 32, a physical therapist at Memorial Hermann-Texas Medical Center. “But a post-graduate degree, that’s like pride for the family.”
Nigerian immigrants have the highest levels of education in this city and the nation, surpassing whites and Asians, according to Census data bolstered by an analysis of 13 annual Houston-area surveys conducted by Rice University.
Although they make up a tiny portion of the U.S. population, a whopping 17 percent of all Nigerians in this country held master’s degrees while 4 percent had a doctorate, according to the 2006 American Community Survey conducted by the U.S. Census Bureau. In addition, 37 percent had bachelor’s degrees.
In comparison
To put those numbers in perspective, 8 percent of the white population in the U.S. had master’s degrees, according to the Census survey. And 1 percent held doctorates. About 19 percent of white residents had bachelor’s degrees. Asians come closer to the Nigerians with 12 percent holding master’s degrees and 3 percent having doctorates.
The Nigerian numbers are “strikingly high,” said Roderick Harrison, demographer at the Joint Center for Political and Economic Studies, a Washington, D.C., think tank that specializes in researching black issues. “There is no doubt that these are highly educated professionals who are probably working in the petrochemical, medical and business sectors in Houston.”
Harrison analyzed the census data for the Houston Chronicle.
Stephen Klineberg, a sociologist at Rice University who conducts the annual Houston Area Survey, suspects the percentage of Nigerian immigrants with post-graduate degrees is higher than Census data shows.
Of all the Nigerian immigrants he reached in his random phone surveys 1994 through 2007 — 45 households total — Klineberg said 40 percent of the Nigerians said they had post-graduate degrees.
“These are higher levels of educational attainment than were found in any other … community,” Klineberg said.
There are more than 12,000 Nigerians in Houston, according to the latest Census data, a figure sociologists and Nigerian community leaders say is a gross undercount. They believe the number to be closer to 100,000.
Staying in school
The reasons Nigerians have more post-graduate degrees than any other racial or ethnic group are largely due to Nigerian society’s emphasis on mandatory and free education. Once immigrating to this country, practical matters of immigration laws get in the way.
The Immigration and Nationality Act of 1965 made it easier for Africans to enter the U.S., but mostly as students or highly skilled professionals — not through family sponsorships, Klineberg said.
So many Africans pursue higher levels of education as an unintended consequence of navigating the tricky minefield of immigration, said Amadu Jacky Kaba, an associate professor at Seton Hall University in South Orange, N.J., who has done research on African immigrants in the U.S.
“In a way, it’s a Catch-22 — because of immigration laws you are forced to remain in school, but then the funny thing is you end up getting your doctorate at the age of 29,” Kaba said. “If you stay in school, immigration will leave you alone.”
Although Kaba, who teaches Africana Studies, is not from Nigeria (he is Liberian), he said he, too, found himself pursuing a master’s and then a doctorate to remain in this country legally.
But not all Africans have to go this route. Some say their motivation is driven by their desire to overcome being a double minority: black and African.
Take Oluyinka Olutoye, 41, associate professor of pediatric surgery at Baylor College of Medicine. He came to this country already as a medical doctor but decided to pursue his doctorate in anatomy to help set himself apart.
“Being black, you are already at a disadvantage,” said Olutoye, whose wife, Toyin Olutoye, is an anesthesiologist at Baylor. “You really need to excel far above if you want to be considered for anything in this country.”
Family expectations
All this talk of education creates high expectations for children of Nigerian immigrants. The eldest child of David Olowokere, chairman of the engineering technologies department at Texas Southern University, for example, is already working on her master’s degree in public health in Atlanta; the middle child is pursuing a bachelor’s in pre-medicine. His youngest, a son, attends The Woodlands High School. He already has aspirations to go into engineering, just like his parents, Olowokere beams.
“The goal is for them to do as good as us — if not better,” he said.
Oluyinka Olutoye put it another way.
“The typical saying in a Nigerian household is that the best inheritance that a parent can give you is not jewelry or cash or material things, it is a good education,” he said. “It is expected